So after the tagset closed, there was a tag: Getting Married to Adopt that I copied to my signup notes to draft my signup from.

Now there are only these tags in the tagset:
Required to get married first before adopting
Need to marry to keep/adopt child

So the ship I was going to request Getting Married to Adopt with has a canonical kid they take care of and I'd love them to get married to adopt her, but they don't need to, they're not required to and I DNW a requirement element in any fic I receive for this.

I'm sorry I didn't notice that you'd deleted this completely nommed/approved tag earlier, but is there any way at all you'd consider editing a voluntarily getting married to adopt tag back into the tagset? I really wanted to request this but I really don't want the involuntary implications of the two tags left.