Also, I'm thinking about requesting a (different) pairing where X and Y are fake-married and have to do marriage-y things, but it never becomes real--that is, I don't want them to get together at the end (even if one or both of them might be into it on some level). Is that a good fit for this exchange, and if so, should I request it as X/Y or X&Y?

Similarly, if I want to request widowed character D opening up about their late spouse to (non-romantically attached) character E, would the relationship to nominate be D/spouse, D&E, or both?

Thank you!